
Nothing can be worse than losing a child. Many people have come to me and ask why? What did I do so wrong that my child had to die? I have no easy answer. I can only tell you what my own guides have told me. They are not 'in charge' of life and death. That is of the physical world. They cry with us when a soul is returned.
No one did anything wrong. Sometimes things happen for no reason that can be explained. I can tell you with open hearted honesty, that any child returned to spirit will live on. No-one ever truly dies. They just disappear from our physical eyes, only to reappear when it is time for you both to be together again.
Last year I posted a poem from Beverley Stuive, in memory of her son Josiah James Alexander Stuive who died soon after birth 27/4/2001. It is so beautiful I thought I'd re-post it.
Heaven's Baby CastleIn a baby's castle just beyond my eye
My baby plays with angel toys that money cannot buy
Who am I to wish his back into this world of strife?
No, play on my baby, you have eternal life
When all around is silent and sleep forsakes my eyes
I'll hear his tiny footsteps come running at my side
His little hand caresses me so tenderly and sweet
I'll breathe a little prayer and close my eyes and embrace his in my sleep
Now I have a treasure I rate above all other
I have known true glory - I am still his mother
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This is one I'll save. I lost my first baby 4 months into the pregnancy and it was devastating and years later it still hard. I know she's in a good place now.
ReplyDeleteI've never lost a child, but mt daughter has and the devestation it causes is beyond words.These are words fromthe song 'The Funeral' by Hank Williams snr. Now don't you be weeping for this pretty bit of clay, for the little boy who lived there is done gone and run away.He was doing very finely and he appreciates your love but he's shown our Good Father wanted him in the big house up above.The Lord didn't give you that baby by no hundred thousound miles, He just think you need some sunshine and he lent it for awhile, let you keep and love it till your hearts were bigger grown. And the silver tears your shedding now are just interest on the loan. Just think my poor dear mourners creeping long on sorrows way what a blessed pinic this here baby got today.Your good Fathers and good Mothers crowd this little fellow round in the angels tender garden, his eyes they brightly sparkled and at the pretty things he viewed and a tear came and he said 'I want my parents too', but the angels chief musician teach the little boy a song, says ' if only they be faithfull they'll soon be coming long. So let your hearts with Jesus rest and don't go critisizing the one what knows the best' This is just part of the song, and to my mind very apt, there are more words of comfort but to many to write here.
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